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Help build NYC's home for grief

New York City's only dedicated non-profit grief support center for children, teens, adults and families is at capacity. Every gift decides how many grieving New Yorkers we can say yes to.

Founding Cornerstone

Our House NYC, presented by Your Name.

Build New York City's grief support infrastructure.

$1,500,000+

See Founding Cornerstone

Cornerstone Society

Three-year partners

How the levels work

Pillar Partner
Names the program for five years, with your name lettered into its icon on our donor wall.
Lead Partner
Large donor-wall plaque · Lead Partner recognition
Program Partner
Donor-wall plaque · Cornerstone Roundtable

Three-year partners. Naming gifts fund the program and its share of the Center, clinical supervision and operations.

Named Spaces

Payable over up to three years · Named for five years
  • Group rooms$250,000 each
  • The bistro$250,000
  • Children's library$100,000
  • Children's corner$100,000
  • Zen Den room$100,000
See all Named Spaces
Not ready for three years? Builder's Society gifts start at $5,000.See Builder's Society

Cornerstone Society

Adult Grief Support

Three-year partners

No one should wait four months to grieve with others

Ten adults, matched by age and by who they lost, meet every other week for six months with two trained leaders.

Your gift turns a four-month wait into a seat in the circle.

  • 99adults waiting today, about four months each
  • 18 → 45groups running at once by the end of 2028
  • 2.5×more grieving adults supported every year
An adult grief support group meeting in a circle

Pillar Partner · Names the program

$350,000

a year for three years ($1,050,000)

The Your Name
Adult Grief Support Program

Lead Partner

$150,000 a year for three years

Funds the clinical supervision that lets us responsibly grow from 18 groups to 45.

Program Partner

$30,000 a year for three years

Keeps adult groups starting every season.

Not ready for three years? Start with Builder's Society: $20,000 supports a group of ten adults for six months.

Cornerstone Society

Family Grief Support

Three-year partners

Dinner together, then a room for every age

Families share a meal, then children, teens and caregivers each meet with their peers. Ten Wednesday evenings, twice a year.

Your gift lets us say yes to the next family that calls.

  • 15families in our first cohort this fall
  • 60families a year by 2028
  • 4×growth in two years, from one cohort to four
A parent hugging a child

Pillar Partner · Names the program

$175,000

a year for three years ($525,000)

The Your Name
Family Grief Support Program

Lead Partner

$75,000 a year for three years

Adds the family and youth clinical capacity that doubles the program.

Program Partner

$30,000 a year for three years

Brings four families through our Family Grief Support program each year.

Not ready for three years? Start with Builder's Society: $7,500 supports one family through our Family Grief Support program. $15,000 brings two families through the program.

Cornerstone Society

School Grief Support

Three-year partners

Grief support where children already are

In-school grief groups. Ten-week grief groups for students who have lost someone close, held on campus during the school day.

On-site grief response. After a death in a school community, we also provide on-site grief support, education and follow-up for students and staff.

  • 30+years behind our model
  • 100 → 160students supported in 2027 & 2028
  • $0cost to any school we serve
Two students working together at a table

Pillar Partner · Names the program

$300,000

a year for three years ($900,000)

The Your Name
School Grief Support Program

Lead Partner

$150,000 a year for three years

Funds the school coordinator: the difference between one group a semester and many.

Program Partner

$30,000 a year for three years

Funds three ten-week student groups a year.

Not ready for three years? Start with Builder's Society: $10,000 sponsors a grief group in one school.

Cornerstone SocietyPilot phase

Workplace Grief Support

Three-year partners

When grief comes to work, we come to you

On-site grief response. When a death touches a workplace or organization, we provide grief support on site for the people affected.

Manager training and return to work. We train managers to respond to grief, and support people coming back to work after a loss.

  • 35employees supported on site in our 2026 pilot
  • 86professionals trained in our pilot at Mount Sinai, Weill Cornell and Teak
  • 2028a dedicated on-site grief response coordinator
Two colleagues talking at a desk

Pillar Partner · Names the program

$150,000

a year for three years ($450,000)

The Your Name
Workplace Grief Support Program

Lead Partner

$100,000 a year for three years

Builds the response program and funds its coordinator in 2028.

Program Partner

$25,000 a year for three years

Supports grief education and community response throughout the year.

Not ready for three years? Start with Builder's Society: $5,000 provides grief response for one workplace.

Cornerstone Society

Volunteer Group Leaders

Three-year partners

The people who hold the room

Screened, trained and supervised by our clinicians, two volunteers lead every group we run.

Our volunteer group leaders show up for people going through some of the most difficult moments of their lives.

  • 46active leaders today
  • 90leaders by 2028, enough for 45 groups at once
  • 2×the leaders, twice the groups, twice the people served
A grief support group led by two volunteer leaders

Pillar Partner · Names the program

$200,000

a year for three years ($600,000)

The Your Name
Volunteer Leader Program, or the leaders as Your Name Fellows

Lead Partner

$75,000 a year for three years

Funds leader recruitment, training and supervision.

Program Partner

$30,000 a year for three years

Trains a new cohort of leaders each year.

Not ready for three years? Start with Builder's Society: $5,000 trains the two Volunteer Group leaders who are needed to launch one grief support group.

Cornerstone Society

Named Spaces

Name a space where New Yorkers grieve together

Every space at 8 West 40th Street holds part of our work: a group circle, a family dinner, a shelf of children's books, a quiet minute alone.

Naming one honors your family, your company or someone you have lost, in the place grieving New Yorkers come to find each other.

Two young people talking, seated together

Group rooms · Seven at the Center

$250,000

per room · three still available

The Your Name Room

Four rooms are already named. Your name goes at the door of a room where support groups meet every week.

For every named space: a one-time gift, payable over up to three years · naming for five years, with first right to renew.

More spaces to name

  • The bistro$250,000

    Where families share dinner together before Family Grief Support groups begin.

  • The children's library$100,000

    Books about loss, memory and feelings, for children and the adults who care for them.

  • The children's corner$100,000

    A welcoming spot for our youngest visitors while their families settle in.

  • The Zen Den room$100,000

    A calm room to step away and take a breath.

Recognition: every named space carries a sign designed to match our donor wall. The reception area is named through Founding Cornerstone, in the title of the donor wall itself.

Cornerstone Society

Founding Cornerstone

Three-year partners

Build the house every program lives in

Every group and family cohort meets at the Center at 8 West 40th Street, and it's the hub for our work in schools and workplaces.

A Founding Cornerstone gift funds the Center and the infrastructure that lets every program grow responsibly, and the Center carries your name: Our House NYC, presented by Your Name.

A group room at the Our House NYC Center

Presenting partner of the Center

$1,500,000+

payable over three years ($500,000+ a year)

Funds the Center, clinical supervision and operations every program shares.

Our House NYC, presented by
Your Name

What it takes to meet the need

Current scale

$1.88M

2027 build

$2.07M

2028 grow

$2.52M
See the full breakdown
Program or costCurrent scale2027 build2028 grow
Adult grief support$319K$323K$402K
Family grief support$146K$163K$184K
School grief support$122K$263K$287K
Workplace grief support$19K$19K$148K
Volunteer group leaders$117K$144K$205K
Shared costs
The Center: rent and occupancy$421K$421K$434K
Administration and fundraising$739K$739K$865K
Total operating cost$1.88M$2.07M$2.52M

Recognition: presented-by naming of the Center for five years · your name added to the title of our donor wall · a private briefing with the Board Chair each year.

Giving Societies

Builder's Society

Not ready for three years? Start with Builder's Society.

Build a community

$20,000 supports a group of ten adults for six months

$15,000 brings two families through our Family Grief Support program

Expand access

$10,000 sponsors a grief group in one school

$5,000 grief response for one workplace

Support a griever

$7,500 supports one family through our Family Grief Support program

Train a volunteer

$5,000 trains the two Volunteer Group leaders who are needed to launch one grief support group